The Sacred Search: The Myth of "The One"

Nowhere in the Bible does it say we have a "soulmate" or have to find "the One."
Marriage isn't to be an idol to complete ourselves. Marriage shouldn't compete with God.
Beauty is fleeting. Find someone who is set on pleasing the Lord.
We are free to marry anyone we wish, only in the Lord.
The choice to get married and who we marry is up to us.
Rather than seeking a soulmate, seek a sole mate.
A man who doesn't love God is limited in his ability to love you. You need a man who is controlled by the Holy Spirit.
We need to marry someone who knows how to forgive.
Don't try to 2nd guess God's design.

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