You attract people when you're living your best life. Men are attracted to women who are driven, who are up to big things, who are committed to their vision. Not someone who is waiting for a man to save them. Men want a woman they can convince to have a relationship with them, not when they have to "save" them. Spend time on learning a skill set. Do what you love. Reconnect with your vision personally and professionally. Spontaneous socializing. Experiment with the types you like hanging out with. More time to date and love yourself. More 'me' time. Appreciate yourself for who you are, not for who you're with. Get out of your comfort zone. Explore. Time to focus on your health. Take risks to tell people that you find them attractive. Make rejection your friend. Approach people you're attracted to and say 'hi.' Surround yourself with family and friends you love.
Wow.... my resume needed some major tweaking. I have spent the majority of this morning refreshing my resume, looking into unemployment, and contacting my temp agency. I feel more proactive about my job search this time around. I want to do it differently than last time in the sense that I will depend more on God with where He wants me. I know He will lead me where I need to be, and it makes the job search a lot easier. I am also more willing to put in some effort this time because the more I work and search for jobs, the faster this process will go, and the more liable I will find a job that works for me. I am a little more hopeful this time around because I know God will provide, and I know all this is happening for a very special reason. What that reason is, I don't know at this point. But I am putting a lot of energy into praying over this process, and I hope my friends do as well. I have found several jobs in my search that I would love to do, but don't seem qualified. And...
So life has been so crazy that I almost forgot to blog. Actually, I've been avoiding the ole blog because I really didn't want to talk about what was going on, which is alot of CRAP! Anyway... Alot has been going on. God has been testing me. But... it's all good. I got a job. A temporary job for the holidays, so I'll be kept busy. I need it. A good managerial job to keep me responsible and busy. Seriously though, the past week has been rough. There have been good times, mind you, but emotionally, things have been tough with my family. Through my Recovery group, I've been learning to deal with conflict differently than how I learned in my family, and going back to a family that still practices bad habits is not good for someone recovering from those things. Talk about high stress. So I've been in a lot of deep sorrow, anger, depression, you name it. I just thank GOD that I have the geographical distance from my family, and I have an amazing group of friends here...
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