You attract people when you're living your best life. Men are attracted to women who are driven, who are up to big things, who are committed to their vision. Not someone who is waiting for a man to save them. Men want a woman they can convince to have a relationship with them, not when they have to "save" them. Spend time on learning a skill set. Do what you love. Reconnect with your vision personally and professionally. Spontaneous socializing. Experiment with the types you like hanging out with. More time to date and love yourself. More 'me' time. Appreciate yourself for who you are, not for who you're with. Get out of your comfort zone. Explore. Time to focus on your health. Take risks to tell people that you find them attractive. Make rejection your friend. Approach people you're attracted to and say 'hi.' Surround yourself with family and friends you love.
Wow.... my resume needed some major tweaking. I have spent the majority of this morning refreshing my resume, looking into unemployment, and contacting my temp agency. I feel more proactive about my job search this time around. I want to do it differently than last time in the sense that I will depend more on God with where He wants me. I know He will lead me where I need to be, and it makes the job search a lot easier. I am also more willing to put in some effort this time because the more I work and search for jobs, the faster this process will go, and the more liable I will find a job that works for me. I am a little more hopeful this time around because I know God will provide, and I know all this is happening for a very special reason. What that reason is, I don't know at this point. But I am putting a lot of energy into praying over this process, and I hope my friends do as well. I have found several jobs in my search that I would love to do, but don't seem qualified. And...
I have a restless spirit. It longs to circumnavigate the globe. For the past few months/years, I've been suppressing this spirit, trying to fit in with "normal life," trying to "settle down" because that's what you're supposed to do at my age. But the restlessness doesn't go away. I believe it is a gift from God. A restless spirit like mine is meant to travel, discover, explore. The comforts of our culture leave one feeling ironically dissatisfied, bored, and listless. I feel less than alive when I'm trying to force myself to fit behind a desk I was never made to sit behind. I only wonder how long this pseudo-conforming will last before this spirit breaks out of me and leaves everything behind. She's done it before, and she can do it again. It's only a matter of when , not if.
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